Love or Wants?

Imagine there's two person of your choice, the first is A and the second is B.

A - Loves you, willing to do anything you ask and willing to change anything for you.
B - Doesn't love you, still cares for anything you demand but doesn't change anything for you.

Apparently, you have a little feelings for A but you are wanting B so much. Which will you go for?

According to some of my friends who would like to remain anonymous to this topic, 'C' said that he would go for A because of the willingness and sacrifice she would make just to be with him. Since A willing to change anything, C said he don't have to be afraid if she doing something he doesn't like. He also said "how often do we get a person like that in Malaysia?". Lol. That is so true.

As for D, he said that he would go for B even though B doesn't love him. I was so impatience to listen to his reasons to his choice. He said that if you want B so much, it means you have feelings for B too. People changes so do we. Even thought B doesn't love you, as time passes by, she might. It is a challenge to him, D said. A challenge of changing the person's attitude and personality to what he desires. D said, to go for A is too easy. Why not go for B? Accept the challenge, going for B could really test your patiences.

As for E, he said "just go to wherever your heart desires most and don't look back". If you look at it this way, it is quite logical of what he said. If you have no feelings towards a person that loves you, what for making yourself suffer and still wasting your time being with that person?
Someone i've known very well always says "it is no point being with someone when you don't have feelings for her".

1 quit as 10 starts

A good friend of mine told me something really shocking to me recently. She was in Johor Bahru, her hometown. As she was eating with my family in a nearby restaurant near a secondary school, she saw a lot of students walking out from the school as school finishes. Then not long after that, smoke fills the area. A group of students including girls are smoking, puffing tar into their lungs right outside the school. She said that they looked merely just 13-14 years old.

When i paid my attention listening to the ages mentioned and cigarettes involved, i deeply felt pity and sad. It is not for myself but to them, teenagers and even some of my friends. One thing i would like to admit, i'm a smoker myself too. But, the main thing is, we smokers who had smoked for a certain period are mostly to be found regretful of our actions. As we all know, smoking are hazardful to our bodies. Therefore, we smokers that faced those circumstances before would tend to quit smoking. BUT, as each one of us wants to quit, 10 teenagers would like to start.

Have we ever wonder why teenagers would wanna start smoking? Is it for the looks? The impression of them being 'cool'? Stress and hypertension? Or just playing around where a lot of teenagers claimed to be doing with cigarettes. Most teenagers that 'played around' with cigarettes will eventually get addicted to it and start wasting their money buying it. To all of you teenagers, what will you be thinking looking at people at young ages smoking across the streets spoiling themselves? Think before you do something not worthy and end up regretting.

Introduction

Hie to all that may visit this blog. This blog that i've created to express from what i've came across through my eyes. Another part of the reason is also to remind ourselves how important our life is and not to waste it upon unnecessary objectives and actions. I myself, who would like to remain anonymous had came across uncountable situations and circumstances which i think it would be a very thoughtful lesson that would address to all the readers of this blog. Don't misunderstand ladies and gentlemens out there, this is neither a blog to impress nor gossip about others. I'm keeping my morality and my ethics straight. I'll also not copy other peoples' work. That is not ethical as we all know. It is a crime that is known as plagiarism. Anyways, please do visit frequently my brothers and sisters out there.