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Saturday, June 03, 2006

Plant a smile

Have anyone of you ever felt pain making someone else important in your life happy? Is it worth your pain? This is a situation some people may lose their directions thinking whether their actions are correct or wrong. It would be wrong to some people because they thought that they should at least gain something back in return by making others happy. NO! That is a total negative thought.

In life, it is always right and wise to make others happy but in a definate right way. Not by doing something not ethical and immoral. Like a friend of mine said before, "In our lifes, we must not always put ourself on top. We must always put others on top before our own. Service above self in short". Does this sound fimiliar? "Service above self". This is the moto used by the Interact Club which they are basically under the world known Rotary Club.

Have you ever try to make someone else happy and when they smile, you feel happy too? Yes, it is assured that almost everyone will feel happy too when making others smile. However, those that felt happy making others smile are sometimes fake happiness. These are what I called as people that suffer themselves for the happiness of others. These people are not wrong, but think about it my dear readers, these are the people that had placed you on top before them. They are the people that truly cares for you.

For those who suffer making others smile, it is a very good thing. It is a deed in fact I could say based on my point of view. However, do not ever expect something in return. Expecting something in return could turn yourself into someone that you are not. Another friend of mine, Terry once said, "I like making my friends and family happy. No matter what are the consequences I would face, I'll still always put them on top in my life. Making them happy, watching the smiling look on their faces makes me happy too. Although sometimes deep inside I suffer, I know that happiness is all that makes people smile and I'm willing to suffer myself for that".

Terry's wise word of wisdom had made me realise in reality the kinds of friends I had which doesn't even care for me. My dear readers, try to think deep, are your close friends for real or not? Beware of choosing friends. A friend could always cheat your mind and the next thing you know, you ended up losing something important in your life.

Plant a smile, a smile that brings true happiness to others.

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